The minute a man feels you're trying to change him or tell him what to do you have lost his attraction. Do Not Accept Substandard Treatment: Men do not want to be able to walk all over you. They want someone who would leave them before they would tolerate poor or lazy treatment.So, be clear on what you do and don't want for yourself and tell him directly. Men like the challenge, so do not be afraid to challenge him.Now that he's in a new relationship with you, he feels pressure to ditch his boys and go out with you.
They really are not that confusing but will only commit to a woman who is not out to control him with man-management.
Men do not need someone to control and mother them and when this happens it is an instant turn-off.
For example, if you've always wanted to try tennis, sign up for lessons at your community center or local athletic club.
Keeping yourself busy by building new interests gives your guy the space that he needs.
You get to decide what you want and let him know in simple and direct ways.
Communicate with him not about what you want him to do or change but rather with what you do and don't want for yourself.However they also respect a woman who has clear boundaries and says in simple and clear communication what is not ok with her.It makes his heart tick when he sees a woman as not taking from his life but as infinitely adding to it. Positivity and Maturity: Men love elegance and the ability to make a woman happy.Even though the rush of electricity that you feel when he's around makes you want to stick by his side 24-7, you know your new guy needs his space.You'll need to give him room if you don't want to come off as clingy or needy.Stand your ground in a calm and serious way by being who you are from your truth.