) doesn’t mean you know which words will put you both in the mood.
“Women feel silly talking dirty,” says Jaiya, a sex educator and author of .
“Generally, people respond well to hearing how aroused their genitals area,” she says.
“It’s oftentimes easier to talk about attributes or objects—how sexy a piece of underwear is, or that you really like his beard stubble,” says Neustifter.
So start with descriptive statements of what turns you on about him. Plus, it’s almost impossible to flop when you’re telling him how much his body excites you.
“The words that turn him on might be tender and loving—that can be just as highly arousing,” Jaiya adds.
If you’re not sure which he prefers, try alternating sweet phrases (e.g.
That way, you know he’ll receive your proposition positively, which can make you feel more confident taking charge.
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(In fact, guys were actually seen as less attractive when they tried to sound sexy.)The downside?
Just because you have a natural oral ability (hello, raspy bedroom voice!
RELATED: The Surefire Secret to Better Sex Do: Discover His Trigger Words Chances are, your guy has a specific term for his penis—as well as for sexual acts, like intercourse and oral—that turn him on the most.
Jaiya calls these trigger words, since the mere sound of them is often enough to crank up his arousal.
Do: Master the Art of One-Word Dirty Talk Trying to string together a full, filthy sentence can actually tamp down your desire, since you’re inside your head, says Jaiya.