It’s not about forcing things to happen, and it’s not going to do you any favors to lie about things just to move things forward.
While going out for drinks one night, Yu-rim suddenly tells Hong that he wants to have sex with her. And so begins a battle of will and wits, both between each other and within themselves, as both Yu-rim and Hong are unsure of what each other wants and what they want themselves.
Even among club kids, a person who is ridiculous drunk on a first date is a person who typically can’t get a second one.
Long walks in the woods may sound romantic, but on a first date, it may make you look like a young serial killer.
Instead, opt for a more crowded area, like a cafe, restaurant, or museum.
If you have any respect for the other person, or if you want to avoid bad times in the future, don’t ghost. Who wants to blow a good 15 minutes to half an hour waiting for someone, anyway? Most would feel safe to say that if a guy is sending you a d*ck pic, he’s probably not looking for Ms. Unless you’re looking for a fling with a jackass, just pass. Nowadays, the most common way to show disinterest is not replying.
You don’t have to reply to initial messages if you’re not interested. It’s not traditionally polite, but at least it will cut sh*t short fast. Otherwise, people think you’re fake, married, or on the lam. While you’re at it, it’s important to remember that overly sexy pictures will not work out in your favor if you’re looking for an LTR.
Expect to split the bill, but accept if the other party offers to pay for the whole thing.
Sadly, the days in which guys were expected to pay the entire date are over.
What worked for your parents may not work for you, and what works for you may not work for future generations.
Setting ground rules for your own dating life will keep your emotions in check, and may even increase your chances of finding a suitable partner.
Baggage is still not cool, even if today’s dating scene is way more mellowed out.