When one partner is constantly initiating sex and the other isn't in the mood very often, you're in for a world of crushed egos, hurt feelings, emotional pressure, and resentment from both sides.
Does your new bae refuse to stop tickling you when you tell them to knock it off?
This person doesn't really see you as —you're a projection of some perfect idea they have in their head, and anytime you shatter those expectations by being a normal, flawed, breathing human being, they're impossible to console.
Fighting happens, but be wary of anyone who seems to flip a switch and transform into an unrecognizable monster when you disagree, calling you names that would make their mother want to wash their mouth out with soap.
It can be a sign of disrespect and just plain shitty conflict resolution skills, which does not a happy couple make.
And what does that say about whatever untrusty worthy habits or temptations they might be projecting onto you?
Checking your Facebook inbox in peace without someone mouth-breathing over your shoulder is practically a basic right!
They're either on the rebound, practicing a particularly toxic version of serial monogamy, or a malignant narcissist. Anyone who wants you all to themselves is likely someone worth running far, far away from before they sink their claws in any deeper.
Research has shown that among married couples, rolling eyes at each can be a common predictor of divorce, and why wouldn't it be?
Do they continue to touch you in seemingly innocent ways (like hugs, shoulder rubs or even repeatedly poking you in the arm like a sibling) when you ask for personal space?
This might be a sign they don't respect your right to your own body and could try to push those boundaries to much more dangerous limits in the future.
Some people simply don't like splashing their personal life onto social media or even talking much about their feelings with friends, but that's different from flat-out hiding your partnership, which is about as glaringly red as a flag can get!