'Instead of focusing on finding a new job he was going out for boozy lunches every day with colleagues who'd also been made redundant,' Claire says.
'After a month he was still going out every day I started to quiz him.
But frequently those stresses are exacerbated at home where they argue with their spouse over finances or the school fees.
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'I ran to the bathroom to throw up, then I realised it made sense of a lot of things.
Robert had been a nightmare to live with for two months since he'd been warned that his was one of countless jobs at risk of redundancy.
Katy Lewis was cleaning the office at home one Saturday last month when she noticed a piece of paper screwed up on the floor behind the wicker bin.
On it her husband Robert had written the names and numbers of two women.
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There are lots of company directors and highflyers on there and men outnumber women by three to one.That's when I discovered that the "group of former colleagues" was just one colleague called Charlotte, and the venue was her bedroom.' He told me I could never have understood how it felt to lose his job in the same way that Charlotte had, which broke my heart.Despite all this extra-marital activity, surprisingly there's a decrease in the number of people filing for divorce.'Research indicates that 40 per cent of the people registered on singles dating websites are actually married, so ironically ours is a much more honest proposition.'Members tell us that they want to relieve the stresses caused by worrying about their jobs or businesses.At present, his business-is earning him a small fortune-with membership starting at £15.99 per month.