I am not judging you, and if you don't mind being the other woman, then by all means, do what you want. Now he is telling me that he is going to leave her and be with me but i have heard through the grape vine that he has done this before. hell maybe you can date other guys while continuing to date him.personally if i were to date a co-worker i'd have been a bit more selective than you, deligirl--i wouldn't have approached her if i knew she had another none of his behavior bothers you, continue to date him.
if you don't care who he dates, he'll do to you what he is doing with his other girlfriend. And when he stops coming home on time, starts going out "with the boys" and forgets to call to let you know he's had car trouble and will be very late ~~ you can wonder where he is.
Things like, DAWSON: Some people like to keep a relationship private when they’re not sure where it’s going.
Still others want to keep a relationship secret when they are already involved with another person, or not completely over their previous relationship.
DAWSON: What you’re experiencing happens to a lot of peopleit’s called infatuation. But it does not pass an important test: the test of time.
Infatuation is the emotional feeling of romantic love. There is nothing wrong with being infatuated, most relationships start thereyou just can’t build a lasting relationship with it.
Some people feel they have to tell the world when they are dating someone.
This can be frightening to guys who are often afraid of calling something a relationship, before they are really sure what it is.As I continue answering your questions about the opposite sex, I want to address a couple of topics that have to do with the beginning stages of a dating relationship.The start of a dating relationship can be a wild time, as you are both just trying to figure out all the details.Time and communication are going to be your two best friends in this situation.In the end, if he really cares about you, he’ll want the world to know. Also if he is doing this to his Girlfriend, what makes you think he wont do it to you? AND you deserve a great guy that you don't have to worry about cheating on you. if you want him to be just yours, YOU AIN'T GONNA WIN THIS ONE honey. Get him to leave his current girlfriend, love him, treasure him, be his best friend.