I was raised in a conservative town, and so i was more or less told that ladies were supposed to hold out, twiddling your thumbs, for guys to ask you out.Being the lady, you were to give them subtle hints concerning your feelings (what JT Tran calls Indicators of Interest).
WARNING: I’m not giving advice that is 100% guaranteed regarding how to meet and date Asian men, just advice in relation to my own experiences. Since a more confident Asian guy would’ve already asked you out of trouble (or if you have a friend that may do with more confidence, point them to the ABCs of Attraction: The Confidence Course for Asian Men), let’s concentrate on the shy ones.
That being said, it helps a shy guy out when you’re a bit more obvious about how much you prefer him.
It would be extremely impressive for you to show interest and get some insight into what makes her tick… Everyone wants to be seen as an individual and appreciated for their uniqueness.
Learn about all of the things that make her smile, angry, sad and overjoyed. Hurling out preconceptions about Asian women is one of the quickest ways to have an Asian woman high-tailing it in the opposite direction.
Here are a couple tips for your next visit to the best Asian dating website, these will help you move to the next level: During the introduction phase, learn about her interests Everyone knows you need two to tango.
While you’re dating, Asian women will be quick to get some answers concerning you and your interests.
Again, NEVER SEND MONEY and report any person who asks to the Cherry Blossoms Staff.
Never, ever, ever say anything negative about her family. While eighty-six percent of Filipinos are Roman Catholic, it’s not an automatic given.
You wouldn’t enjoy it if some guy said “all cute girls will be the same”, so we’re not doing that here with Asian men - every person guy who just so happens to be Asian have “an infinite quantity of variables” (to quote JT) that creates his unique personality. There’s a stereotype that Asian men are shy and intimidated by women.
We must remember that they are human first and Asian guys second. While that isn't necessarily true, there are plenty of shy guys out there and, since you’re scanning this, you probably have an Asian guy in mind.
So I (and several other girls that were persuaded to contribute) am here to offer a few tips and pointers who have worked for me previously and how you can apply them in your dating life!