You could miss it the first few times, But then, unexpectedly, Somehow this invisible magnetic energy Pulls you and another person together. "Are you saying, if you could have changed things, you would've waited for me? "I'm saying I would have found you sooner.” ― Sarah Curtis, “Sometimes your inability to let go has nothing to do with real love and everything to do with what that person represents in your life. Why do you believe that God doesn't love you enough that he would not bring someone else into your life? Unfortunately, I didn't do a very good job of self-persuasion.
And you feel this beautiful magic, Like a gravitational force -As if the moon were kissing the sun. However, you are never to go looking for her sister Love. Good thing I wasn't in court suing myself, because I would have lost. Ever: A Short Story” ― Zack Love, “So I'm delighted to open up a bit about these particular details, in honor of Valentine's Day (when every balding, chubby, and short actuary wants people - especially the babes out there - to know about his studly past"From: "My Best Valentine's Day.
When someone leaves, it's because someone else is about to arrive--I'll find love again.” ― Paulo Coelho, “NOT UNTIL I MET YOUNot until I felt your sunshine, Did I realize that I had been in the shade.
What people find then is a certain love.” ― Mitch Albom, “You’re thinking, maybe it would be easier to let it sliplet it gosay ”I give up” one last time and give him a sad smile. And when you can, look at him, lying next to you, trusting you not to harm him. We fear that evaluating our needs and then carefully choosing partners will reveal that there is no one for us to love.
You’re thinkingit shouldn’t be this hard,shouldn’t be this dark,thinkinglove could flow easily with no holding backand you’ve seen others find their match and build something greattogether,of each other,like two halves fitting perfectly and now they achieve great thingsone by one, always together, and it seems grand. Love him like a black stone in your chest you couldn’t live without because it fits in there. Don’t throw it away searching for someone else’s love. Most of us prefer to have a partner who is lacking then no partner at all.
It never announces its arrival But when it does find you Its warmth is so strong It may frighten you You could close your eyes and feel it And feel them No matter where you are Or they are Every time. But some people have their sensors off, Or hide from it, Or constantly look for it. This is why the idea of finding love across the dance floor endure — symbolizing that, when we know the true rhythm of our heart, we know the other.” ― Alexandra Katehakis, “You can't live in your mind and expect those dreams to become real, without the work. Alder tags: being-fearless, bravery, choices, courage, dating, decisions, divorce, divorcing, faith, finding-love, finding-the-one, making-dreams-come-true, new-life, plans, relationships, rescue-yourself, scared, scary, starting-over, stayingpositiveu-com “People say they find love, as if it were an object hidden under a rock. That the person giving it & the manor in which it's given isn't what they wanted. Or maybe, it's just that when you don't know what you want nothing is ever enough. That life gives us exactly what we've been wanting but we fail to embrace it.
Reality requires actions that might feel scary, but that is what is required if you want to find true love. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. Capture every second of easy, pull through every storm of hardship. Simply letting those moments & people pass us by.” ― Trevor Driggers “Describing our romantic longings in 'Life preserves,' therapist Harriet Lerner shares that most people want a partner 'who is mature and intelligent, loyal and trustworthy, loving and attentive, sensitive and open, kind and nurturant, competent and responsible.' No matter the intensity of this desire, she concludes: 'Few of us evaluate a prospective partner with the same objectivity and clarity that we might use to select a household appliance or a car.' To be capable of critically evaluating a partner we would need to be able to stand back and look critically at ourselves, at our needs, desires, and longings.....
Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists.
Or maybe your dating history consists only of short, abrupt relationships where you or your partner gets bored too soon, and you don't know how to make a relationship last.
Instant sexual attraction and lasting love do not necessarily go hand-in-hand.
Emotions can change and deepen over time, and friends sometimes become lovers—if you give those relationships a chance to develop. Fact: Women and men feel similar things but sometimes express their feelings differently, often according to society’s conventions.
tags: being-single, dating, finding-love, living-life-to-the-fullest, living-your-best-life, love, not-settling, positive-thinking, praying-for-love, relationships, single, single-life, single-woman, singleness, the-single-woman “My heart might be bruised, but it will recover and become capable of seeing beauty of life once more.
It's happened before, it will happen again, I'm sure.
Learning how to keep things in perspective, watch for red flags, and deal with trust issues will put you on the path to finding a loving relationship that lasts.