But just because she liked doesn’t mean she wants to live in it.“Are you The One,” “Looking For Ms.Right,” “Searching for my Soulmate” and “Love like there’s no tomorrow” are lame dating headlines. Someone cool and masculine and maybe a little dangerous. You’re not going to get a woman to fall desperately in love with you using only a headline, but you can definitely intrigue her.
Not even if you think it’s the funniest of all funny jokes.
There are better ways to differentiate yourself than to sound like a serial killer.
But if your headline is going to advertise how “unique” you are – and how strict your parameters for the perfect woman can be – then don’t expect to get many responses.“Vegan biker and techie looking for blonde, in shape, environmentally conscious gluten-free artist” isn’t exactly going to reel ‘em all in.
This is just a more annoying, particular variant of The Captain Obvious.
Either way, ellipses and question marks make it seem like you’re having a conversation – without you even having to say anything directly.
So if you’re not into the bad-boy thing, what about something like …The former invites a woman to send you a message while the latter jokingly invites a woman to drop you a line if she is all of the above.
So you’ve signed up for a dating site like Plenty Of Fish, thought long and hard about your profile, and selected just the right pictures to demonstrate what a great catch you are.
But there’s one area that’s still stressing you out: More specifically, coming up with one of your own. If you’re just hanging out on OKCupid or Christian Mingle, then you’re one of the lucky dudes who don’t need to stress over their headline.
Here’s what search results look like on Millionaire Match: See how that headline is the first thing you see?
It’s the same on POF: Now we’re not going to make any snarky comment about these headlines (but seriously, they’re awful, don’t use them).
You’ll see smart ways to differentiate yourself with your headline in a bit.