However, things reported about Dinesh’s circumstances apply to the discussion below.Therefore, I refer to them only to address principles about separation, dating, and morality.Otherwise, the one promoting the separation should admit to self and spouse that the ultimate goal is divorce.
After speaking at the Christian event that evening and receiving a standing ovation, he spent the night in the same Comfort Inn room with Denise.
When confronted later, he claimed nothing happened. 4 told me his marriage was ‘over,’ said he ‘is sure Denise is the one for me,’ and said he had ‘done nothing wrong.’”SEE ALSO: The Unfaithful Spouse: Should I Divorce or Try to Reconcile? It does not solve problems.” When a couple struggles, stress inevitably ensues.
While attaining that time out sounds like a good idea, typically it is not. Because once they experience the relief, it is difficult to go back into the unpleasant task of figuring out how to solve the problems.
Our experience with helping couples indicates that separation facilitates divorce, but seldom facilitates reconciliation.
Dating May Lead to Love I do not know when Dinesh met Denise, or how their relationship developed.
Though I do not know their details, I know the process. Maybe they worked together, had mutual friends, or went to the same church.SEE ALSO: Real Commitment in Marriage Is It Right to Date While Separated?Dating is the process of sifting through possibilities to find a suitable significant other.On October 18, the board of The King’s College accepted Dinesh’s resignation. Usually that leads to strife, anger, and other negative experiences.They incorporated a prayer into their minutes that included this sentence, “All-too-frequent reports of the sinful failing of our accomplished leaders bring us no joy.” Subsequently, Dinesh announced that he is suspending his engagement to Denise. Therefore, the act of separation immediately brings a sense of relief and calm because they are not constantly at each other’s throats.Admittedly, not all people who date look for long-term partners, but even if their intention is for short-term companionship, the process is similar. As long as one is married to one person, she should in no way seek significant relationship with any other person.