Getting wasted every night is a bad idea for plenty of reasons, and talking about it all the time just makes it seem like you’re actually proud that you projectile-vomited in the corner of the bar. You’ll come off as fun yet responsible, rather than fun yet always passed out on some random dude’s couch by midnight. You act like you’re hot stuff Confidence is an awesome trait, and no one’s saying you shouldn't flaunt it if you’ve got it.But if you’re constantly parading around like you’re on the runway of the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, confidence can turn into unflattering conceitedness.
some girls think they're really sneaky about this too, which just makes it worse.” Plus, if you’re always texting or tweeting or Instagramming when a guy is trying to talk to you, it makes you seem uninterested and not invested in what he has to say.
And if he can’t count on you to be there to listen and talk, he may think he’s better off keeping you in the FWB category. You don’t get along with his best friends “If she doesn't get along with your close friends, chances are she's not ‘the one,’” Nate says.
“Guys do like a bit of a challenge, so not having sex may lead to more hook-ups until it does happen. Some guys just want to hook up and are not interested in relationships, so many times it has nothing to do with the girl.
It's completely dependent on the situation and people involved.” 6.
“Guys like girls that can drink and have fun—definitely a turn-on.
But girls that are constantly really sloppy or talk about how sloppy they are are just a nuisance, more than anything,” says Mike from the University of Michigan.
You never put down your cell phone “There’s nothing worse than a girl that is clearly glued to her i Phone,” Kiko says.
“Yeah, you know who you are, ‘girl that tries to be clever and not think I notice you texting at least three other guys.’ You're showing to me that you have other options than me and that after we hang out you're about to go to the next guy…
Instead of gossiping, your best bet is to engage in interesting conversation with a guy.
“It’s true that you meet most girls in a party scene, but the ones that have always stuck out to me have been the ones that have talked to me about things other than the typical topics of conversation,” says Kiko.
So you’ve been hooking up with this guy for a few weeks, maybe even months, but it still hasn’t really progressed to the next level.