Ross is a licensed therapist who is also a certified addiction counselor (CADC) and certified sex addictions therapist (CSAT).
He joined me on Last First Date radio for a highly informative show about how to avoid dating and falling in love with the people who hurt us.
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What about you is so hurt/compromised psychologically?
Lack of self-esteem and fear of being alone are the problem.
How can the codependent see the red flags if he’s so loving at first? Pathological narcissists have personality disorders. They don’t have insight into how they hurt someone, so they won’t make amends or change. They are used to you taking care of them before you take care of yourself. To learn more about how to set boundaries and begin your own process of recovery, listen to and/or download the show now.
If you’re a codependent, go to therapy because you want to learn to regain your power.
Codependency is caused in childhood from an attachment trauma.
You have the message that you’re not lovable for who you are.
If you’re practicing an addiction, stopping that should be your first priority before tackling codependency.
In this post I want to explore how codependents handle self esteem, some pointers for promoting good self esteem in children and recovering codependent adults and see how to track progress.
Codependents can’t get themselves unstuck once they’re in a codependent relationship.