He’s not able to satisfy her and he’s literally decided to bring someone else in,” notes Menzise. Most people wouldn’t believe how common a practice this is with a relationship: A man literally finding another to have sex with their wife.But some guys feel they’re providing more pleasure.“It’s about not having the control over each other,” she says.
Here I am having fun and doing all these things and am I leaving him out?
”There are of course the ménage à trois scenarios as opposed to dating a number of people.
And seeing someone else pleasuring provides security.”Seku presents progressive love as being the way to security.
“Being progressive is a very empowering stance going against the standard narrative sex relationships.
Decide if a DWM lifestyle is appropriate for you and your partner, or just you./span Rakhem Seku and his wife Hakashamut Kenya K Stevens are the founders of Juju Mama, LLC, a progressive love movement with workshops and a support network for progressive relating.
Seku says, “Marriage is a great club to belong to say ‘I’m married’ and flash the ring.” He says he meets many men whose “intention is to be exclusive, but it’s not working for them.That is, “free and open to date other people, and connect organically.” According to Seku the best approach is when authenticity is key. Jeff Menzise, Doctor of Clinical Psychology and couples coach, is often referred and requested as a neutral party-mediator between couples considering opening up their relationship as a form of enhancement.For instance, if a female seeks advice for an infidelity issue, as an alternative to leaving she may suggest open relating as a form of taking control.For me, it is not one with which I wish to participate. I do not wish to pass judgment on others’ relationships as I figure there are enough tea leaves for all.What I would like to propose are a few rules that maybe the more mature crowd—including the grown and sexy set—can adopt for future positive social interactions.Do you feel like you’re adequate–doing everything you can, carrying the weight where you feel your partner’s satisfied with you?