Now you know he’s taking this thing seriously and you can probably stop calling it dating and start using the word relationship.
Don’t call him everyday – It may from time to time seem as though the male half of the population hasn’t fully grasped the concept of staying in touch but trust me we know how to call you when you haven’t called us.
Hang out with your friends, go for a meal with your sister, have drinks after work, and after a certain amount of time you will both start doing many of these things together.
Take it slowly and don’t rush into spending every evening with your new man.
If you want to stay in control of the date and keep him interested then take it easy and don’t overindulge.
If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.
If you call constantly to “just check in” then the chances are he’ll feel smothered within a week and will lose interest or just assume you are a bit desperate.
If you don’t call, he’ll start to panic and think that you have a life that doesn’t revolve around him which leads us to…
Do your own thing – Never make us the centre of your world.
Men love doing their own thing, and they love a woman who does her own thing even more.
You're texting back and forth every hour and then...nothing. I turned to one friend, Slash (yes I have a friend named Slash), who admitted to pulling the disappearing act about 6 or 7 times in the past year alone.
"There's only so many times I can tell a woman I'm not available to date her before it gets into tricky territory," Greg said. ' because if so I will start doing that."One friend thought that there is a lot of pressure from women to find out where a relationship is going and that in turn puts undue pressure on a situation, causing men to freak out and run. For some people that means they try to run to the next step of a relationship; for others the very idea of that makes them run from the relationship entirely.
But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you?