If a guy’s scared you’ll leave him, he’d do anything to manipulate you into staying.
Insecure men like controlling their women because of their own shortcoming.
[Read: The right way to have a perfect start to a new relationship] The mind of an insecure man It took me quite a few years to actually see what I was experiencing now and then with guys I date.
Insecure men and their woes Insecure men can come off as one of the most sensitive and nicest men you’ve ever met.
At first, he may be quiet and always ready to give you advice when you need it.
[Read: Signs to tell if he really is the right man for you] The problems of dating insecure men Insecure men are terribly jealous. In fact, they’ll make you feel like you’re being the bad one in the relationship.
They’ll behave like they’re sacrificing so much for your happiness, and load you up with guilt.
And before you know it, your sweet and insecure man will learn to control your life by playing the part of the victim.
And you’ll never even realize you’re being manipulated and arm twisted till you lose your old happy life and become a woman whose only ambition in life is to keep her man happy and make him feel proud of her.[Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad? Insecurity is a deep rooted issue that’s as unique as the guy.But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.[Read: 15 shocking signs of insecurity in a subtly controlling boyfriend] Insecure men aren’t always insecure though.