In the end, you realized you weren't attracted to him so you went home, jumped back online, and started romancing another profile.
I have read a few postings on this site and after having a cry I decided to post my own question as I am in need of advice.
Moreover, good looks are often combined with a fine sense of humor and a positive attitude.
Right, but there's a common mistake I see women make time after time, and I need to bring it to your attention. "Well, mental masturbation is one of the big dangers with online dating.
It's what happens when you find a guy's profile and start having a mental romance even before you've met him.
You go back and check out his profile dozens of times a day, and each time you read it, you start to desire him even more.
You imagine he's the one who's going to sweep you off your feet.
I was with my exhusband for almost 10 years and at first I was opposed to it, but I learned to love it once we tried it. About 20 years ago I had a partner that I would meet on a monthly basis for exactly this and only this, mutual masterbation. I have spoken to quite a few men about this and have never had anyone say that they would not enjoy doing it. If it's not normal to do it with your partner, I'm not normal and I plan to stay that way. If not, there are a lot of other things they won't do with their partner. Absolutely unequivocally I think it is a major turn on for both.
I just want to know how others feel about it because if it is out of the norm I may not want to bring it up to my next partner too soon. Most men say they want to watch me and because I am incredibly turned on by a man masturbating, the men have all been open to it. It is rather low key as far as the freaky scale goes and the men I have spoken to with more conservative views on sex have been receptive to the idea as well. What a better way to get a sense of what your partner enjoys.
How many times have you romanced a guy online, loved his profile, and then when you met he looked nothing like his photo?
He looked amazing in his picture, but when you met, he was 40 pounds heavier and 3 inches shorter than you thought?
If your friends are 30 y/o like you, try this conversation again in 10 years. Plus I think the visual aspect of seeing your partner do this just heightens ones own state of arousal I should add that this is a good time to instruct your partner in the proper care and use of those power tools locked away in your nightstand.