These rules came from mistakes made and lessons learned. Now, I didn't just make up these rules: they came from mistakes made and lessons learned. No matter how great he sounds, insist on meeting in public for your initial meeting, and even your second or third meeting.
We put two and two together, and wrote and wrote, and that’s how The Rules were born!
We had no idea The Rules would become a bestseller…
I know it might have all the signs of a date, but it's not.
This is a time when you want to make sure that 'what you saw was what you got' and that this person is truly interested in getting to know you.
Utilize Certified Dating Coach, Tara Richter’s, 10 rules to help you navigate your way through internet dating sites to find your loving Jane or Tarzan.
Within this book you will be able to:-Brush up on internet dating terminology-Get a comprehensive review of dating websites-Find out how to weed out dates online-How to take your online romance offline safely-Build self-esteem-Find healthy relationships-Discover your dating jungle personality-Read funny internet dating stories and more!We came up with the idea for a self-help dating book called The Rules after many, many dinners with single girlfriends at the now-defunct Sung Chu Mein, a Chinese restaurant on the Upper East Side in New York City—it was sort of like Sex and the City, but before Sex and the City!Like most women our age, we were career-minded with our own apartments, but we also wanted to get married.A soul mate is someone who responds to your ad, doesn’t give up e-mailing you, tries to get your number to get a date with you and is a loving and fun companion. So beyond looking desperate, it is really a waste of time to write down “waiting for my soul mate” or anything like it.Unfortunately, you cannot attract this by writing the word down any more than you can attract wealth by writing down the word “money.” Be patient. It's kind of like 'proof' that they are a real person, and not someone with a fake online profile; it's a red flag if someone who says they want to meet you won't give you their phone number or says that they can't be reached by phone. Meeting someone in person that you initially met online can be nerve-wracking, and agreeing on something casual is a great way to take some of the pressure off.